Tuesday, September 24, 2019

Relevant New Memoir


Things We Didn’t Talk About When I Was A Girl by Jeannie Vanasco
Publication Date – October 1, 2019
4 stars

When we think about rape, it is sometimes the norm to picture sinister strangers in dark alleys but in reality most rapists are acquaintances.  Jeannie Vanasco’s hard-hitting book delves into her own experience as a young adult when she was raped by one of her closest friends.  She decided to contact her rapist while in the process of writing this memoir and she includes the transcript from her conversations with him, interspersed with her own thoughts and feelings.  This book is intense, thought-provoking and awkward.  I had to take frequent breaks in order to synthesize my own thoughts on what I was reading.  I did have minor issues with some of the content, but I think overall that this is an important book for young women and men who are struggling with what constitutes consent, especially in dealing with friends of the opposite sex.  I received a complimentary copy of this book through the Tin House Galley Club in exchange for an honest review. 

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